Well, as anyone who has traveled over time zones knows, it takes awhile for your body to catch up with the clock. We arrived home last evening safe and sound. Barb had quite the greeting committee as her entire family ran to meet her in the parking lot. Heidi went home to a quiet house and my kids began making up for lost time with each other. But, this morning I rose early. For one we always rose with the sun in the C.A.R. and two, at 5:00 am, my body thought it was 10 am and just couldn’t sleep.
As I walked around the house and marveled at how clean it was, the things of life here began to grab my attention: unpacking, laundry, bills to pay, banking, shopping that needs to be done, work, etc. It’s difficult sometimes to adjust back into your culture. The pace of life here is much faster, the demands often greater. So please, as you interact with the team, be patient with us. If we do strange things like raise our eyebrows at you from across the room, we are just saying “hi.” If we snap our fingers in the air, we are just trying to get your attention. If we want to shake every person's hand whom we see, well, that’s just the polite thing to do there. If you are hanging out with us, driving or walking and we begin to wave at everyone on the street, just give us time, we will adjust.
Culture is an interesting thing. I enjoyed discussing with Maurice, our translator, the differences in our cultures. We both realized we could learn from each other. His culture is more like Mary and our’s like Martha. He sometimes would get frustrated with his culture because of the lack of things that would get accomplished because people really don’t have much concept of time and relationships are far more important anyway. I get frustrated sometimes because accomplishing things sometimes takes priority over taking time to build relationships. We agreed there is a middle ground between our cultures that we could both benefit from.
Anyway, we are all happy to be home, even though I miss already the friends we have in the C.A.R. There is a great bunch of people there serving the Lord and the people of their country. I can’t wait for all of you to meet them personally one day in Heaven. We always part by saying to them, we will see you again either here (in Africa) or there (pointing up to Heaven). Of course they always say they hope it is in the C.A.R first. And so do I.
Thanks again for all of your prayers and comments to the blog. You have been a lifeline to us, and we are happy to be back home among you!
Serving Together for Christ,
Jeana
Saturday, July 11, 2009
Friday, July 10, 2009
Team Arrives in Paris!
Hello everyone:
I got a text from Jeana Harley saying that the team arrived safely in Paris. We praise God for that!
Please keep praying that God will continue to bless them as they journey back to the U.S. and that they will arrive safely.
Thank you for your prayers!
Pastor Ivanildo C. Trindade
itrindade@woostergrace.org
I got a text from Jeana Harley saying that the team arrived safely in Paris. We praise God for that!
Please keep praying that God will continue to bless them as they journey back to the U.S. and that they will arrive safely.
Thank you for your prayers!
Pastor Ivanildo C. Trindade
itrindade@woostergrace.org
Thursday, July 09, 2009
Final Good-byes
Well, next stop, Paris, the D.C. then Cleveland. If all goes well, we will be back in Cleveland around 6:16 PM on Friday night.
Duit Njonio,
Jeana
Wednesday, July 08, 2009
Loving Before Leaving
[Blogger's note: Please pray for our team as they take their luggage to the airline tomorrow morning (Bangui time). Pray that the luggage will be checked all the way to Cleveland and for great flights and timely connections. And if I were a betting man, I would bet that Heidi will NOT be canoeing on Saturday. Sorry, RAD. Also, for the future history books -- I was the one who started the tradition of having my hair "braded" while in Africa. It looks great, Jeana!].
Thank you all for praying about the water situation at the guesthouse. The pipes were filled with water around 10 am…the exact starting time of our “Appreciation Tea.” God was definitely working and the praise goes to Him!
During the “Appreciation Tea,” we served cookies, brownies, muffins, and snack crackers, along with tea and coffee. We even had the privilege of hearing Zac sing in Sango for everyone. We also spent time singing a few hymns in Sango. Jeana thanked all of the employees for their hard work and servant attitudes. Then, Mr. Zokoe thanked us for coming and loving the Central Africans with unconditional love. He also said our love for God is evident in how we showed love to those we interacted with while here.
In the afternoon, we helped Tom & Sue Peters teach an English class to some of the ICDI employees. Tom teaches the advanced students, and Sue teaches the beginners. We helped in the beginner class, and spent time one-on-one with the students. The previous week’s homework had been to learn to say a prayer in English, so each student prayed at the beginning of class time. Their English wasn’t perfect, but it was still neat to hear them try. The lesson for the day was the Feeding of the 5,000 in John 6. During the class time, each student had to write a sentence about 12 pictures that depicted the story. It was really encouraging to see how the one-on-one interaction helped each student gain a better understanding of English.
After the English lesson, we gave gifts to the ICDI employees that we spent most of our time with. These employees had seen us give gifts to all of the orphans during our visit, and this afternoon it was finally their turn to receive a gift given in love. They were so pleased and felt so appreciated. Their smiles were priceless, as seen in this picture of Nestor. He is one of the school tutors/teachers for ICDI. We gave him pens and a highlighter (among other things), and he immediately put them in his shirt pocket!
Barb stuffed her backpack full of medical supplies for Nurse Rebecca. This backpack enables Rebecca to take medical supplies with her when she travels to see each orphan group. Until this time, she could only take a few supplies with her. Even though Rebecca doesn’t fully understand English, she completely understood how much the backpack will help her and the children. She kept saying “thank you” over and over in Sango. We all enjoyed providing encouragement and support to these employees. The work they do is inspiring!
In the evening, Jeana and I got our hair braided, so that we can look like Africans. As Sue Peters says, “When in Africa, do as Africans.” It was hard to sit still for hours, but our hair looks great! The price we pay for beauty :) While we had our hair braided, Barb went to the prayer meeting at Heidi Sisson’s for the local missionaries here. She had a great time singing hymns and praying with the missionaries. Zac spent time helping pack…it’s a good thing we brought a boy along. :)
Please pray that we easily get through customs and make all of our connecting flights tomorrow
Thanks for being faithful readers of the blog!
Heidi- on behalf of team
Thank you all for praying about the water situation at the guesthouse. The pipes were filled with water around 10 am…the exact starting time of our “Appreciation Tea.” God was definitely working and the praise goes to Him!
Please pray that we easily get through customs and make all of our connecting flights tomorrow
Thanks for being faithful readers of the blog!
Heidi- on behalf of team
Tuesday, July 07, 2009
Gifts, Dreams and Appreciation
The farm consists of many fields. Rice and gozo (manioc root) are the main produce, but there is also a field of potatoes, and peanuts, along with a garden. Planted in the garden are the basic vegetables gardens in the U.S. have - onions, beans, lettuce, etc. The fields are maintained by widows, because it is very difficult for widows to financially support themselves. The food produced from these fields is used to feed the orphans at the school, and also sold to financially support the school and keep it maintained. Positively, each widow also personally has a plot of land to sell the produce and make a profit.
As we toured the farm, Madame Zokoe explained to us the future plans for the land- a high school, a boys dorm, a girls dorm, a chapel, and a shop, used for carpentry, masonry, and sewing. She said some of the land would be used for the orphans to raise chickens, and grow their own food, too. It was neat to hear her dreams for the land, and she asks that we pray for financial funding to get the projects going.
(Barb) It was great to work with Nurse Rebecca again. Due to the hard rain last night it took the children longer to get to the Mercy Center, so we had a little time to talk. I tried my Sango and she tried her English. With the help of my dictionary, we communicated well. She has bilateral knee pain, so I gave her my knee brace to keep. She practically danced! It seemed to give her some instant relief. Great! We also had time to have a knitting lesson which she picked up rapidly. She has one brother and three sisters, just like me. She is the mother of four and the grandmother (Ata) of eight. Four boys and four girls, and I got to meet three of them today. How beautiful they are!
We also had time to sing Sango hymns. I learned all four verses of “Jesus Loves Me”, “O How I Love Jesus” and a few more. Before we finished singing, Flavia came and we had three part harmony going. Finally, the children came! Three were suffering from malaria. We gave them thorough exams to check for anything else. Another child was suffering from parasites, but the lab results are not back yet. As I was looking over the list for all eight groups, it saddened me to see that two little girls had died. This morning before we left we had some time so Sue Peters and I turned it into prayer time. It has been a plus to see Tom & Sue every day. It doesn’t seem possible that we only have 2 days left. I will be sorry to leave, but so happy to see my loving family.
I was reading in Job today and found these verses applicable- 36:6 “He giveth right to the poor” & 36:16 “He delivereth the poor in his affliction.” God bless & thanks for all you prayers.
We had lunch with Brice and Maurice, at the Grand CafĂ©, which is basically a French restaurant planted in Bangui. Brice is our driver, and Maurice is our translator and right-hand man. We appreciate their work for ICDI and their help so much, that we wanted to thank them. It was really neat to see how much this meal, and time with us meant to them. And, what good is a meal, if you don’t get dessert?! The ice cream we got was delicious! :)
In the afternoon, we cooled off again in the pool at the Ambassador’s house. We enjoyed the time of relaxing after a busy day. After dinner we had team time, and planned our appreciation tea for tomorrow. We are hosting an “Appreciation Tea” as a way to show our appreciation to all of the ICDI employees we’ve interacted with during the trip. Please pray that the ICDI employees will feel appreciated. Also, please pray that we will have running water by the time the tea starts. For most of Tuesday we did not have running water, and when we went to bed, we still didn’t have any.
Thanks again for your prayers! We’ll be home soon. :)
Heidi- on behalf of the team.
I was reading in Job today and found these verses applicable- 36:6 “He giveth right to the poor” & 36:16 “He delivereth the poor in his affliction.” God bless & thanks for all you prayers.
In the afternoon, we cooled off again in the pool at the Ambassador’s house. We enjoyed the time of relaxing after a busy day. After dinner we had team time, and planned our appreciation tea for tomorrow. We are hosting an “Appreciation Tea” as a way to show our appreciation to all of the ICDI employees we’ve interacted with during the trip. Please pray that the ICDI employees will feel appreciated. Also, please pray that we will have running water by the time the tea starts. For most of Tuesday we did not have running water, and when we went to bed, we still didn’t have any.
Thanks again for your prayers! We’ll be home soon. :)
Heidi- on behalf of the team.
Monday, July 06, 2009
JOY!
Heidi is playing a shoe game in the one picture. Zac is doing some sort of line dance/game. Everyone is just being joyful. JOY – that has been one of the themes of this trip. We are doing ministry, and in the process, spreading joy! 
The final picture is of Williams (back), Brice, Zac and Christophe. They have been with us almost everyday, and that has been a joy!
Thanks for all of your prayers for not only us, but also for those of you have let us know you have been praying for those requests we have listed on our blog for the orphan groups here. There is no doubt that God is working in these groups. There is no doubt that Satan is also hard at work too. Keep praying.
In the Name of our Great God – Duti Njonio
Jeana
Thanks for all of your prayers for not only us, but also for those of you have let us know you have been praying for those requests we have listed on our blog for the orphan groups here. There is no doubt that God is working in these groups. There is no doubt that Satan is also hard at work too. Keep praying.
In the Name of our Great God – Duti Njonio
Jeana
Sunday, July 05, 2009
Sweet Perfume
After the church service, the deacons and deaconesses stood in a circle and all of us greeted them and shook hands with them. Some of the women sprayed us with their personal perfume, too. At first, I thought only one women would do that, but as I went around the circle, I kept getting squirted. We all walked out of church smelling like a perfume shop. I’ll admit, I was a little annoyed about getting drenched in perfume, but then my perspective changed when Jeana and Barb both mentioned this scenario reminding them about the woman who anointed Jesus’ feet with perfume. To the women of this church, we were so important that we deserved to be treated with the best, including their perfume. They wanted to honor us and show their love.
Please keep praying for us, as the last few days are packed full.
Thanks for the comments. We look forward to reading them daily!
Heidi- on behalf of the team.
Meeting and Praying for the Strong and Weak
It was impressed upon me how these older kids only have a few more years left to be in the program and the importance of sponsoring these older kids. They will be out on their own very soon and need first of all to know Christ, and then to have an education, a skill, good health and know how to care for themselves. All of these things they learn in this program. The boys, especially, in this culture, even more than the girls, will be the ones who can really change their country.
Of course we gave the group a soccer ball. That created some excitement and some showing off of some fancy footwork by a couple of the boys. Then, before leaving, I asked how our church could be praying for this group. The 4 leaders each shared different requests with us:
Please join us in praying for group #7 that their caregivers, often extended families, would let them come to their group meetings. The caregivers would rather have them be out working and making money for the family. They want their own children to succeed, but want the orphans that live with them to work. They also asked for spiritual growth for these children as well as success in school and prayer for their teachers and good health. One group leader said that the devil is fighting against them so they need us to pray a lot for them. They closed by asking for prayer to give them the strength they need to care for these kids. This is a very large group too. I left, as I often do, with a very heavy burden. I must share this with all of you and encourage you to pray. That is one thing that these trips cause you to do as you never have before: PRAY.
We ended our day by getting all dressed up and going to the US Ambassador’s house. Fred and Denise Cook hosted any American citizen who wanted to attend along with many dignitaries and bigwigs in country at this time. It was quite an experience. Zac and I mingled a little as we went back to the beverage table for another African Cocktail (a mixture of several fruit juices). It was neat talking or trying to talk to different people. During the ceremony, an African choir from the university sang American Patriotic songs.
Then they introduced the President of the C.A.R. and the Prime Minister and sang their national anthem. Our Ambassador, Mr. Cook, invited all citizens of the United States to come up and join the choir in singing our national anthem. We happened to be in front and quickly noticed the TV news cameras were filming us. After that the Ambassador read a speech in three languages which was very long. A cake was brought out, a toast was made, then the President of the C.A.R. came around and shook our hands. Wow, none of us had ever had the privilege of shaking hands with any country’s president before, so it was quite an honor. Sorry we don’t have any pictures of our night there. We didn’t want to look like tourists.
I prayed for the 4th of July outreach and look forward to hearing all about it.
Good-night - Jeana
We ended our day by getting all dressed up and going to the US Ambassador’s house. Fred and Denise Cook hosted any American citizen who wanted to attend along with many dignitaries and bigwigs in country at this time. It was quite an experience. Zac and I mingled a little as we went back to the beverage table for another African Cocktail (a mixture of several fruit juices). It was neat talking or trying to talk to different people. During the ceremony, an African choir from the university sang American Patriotic songs.
Then they introduced the President of the C.A.R. and the Prime Minister and sang their national anthem. Our Ambassador, Mr. Cook, invited all citizens of the United States to come up and join the choir in singing our national anthem. We happened to be in front and quickly noticed the TV news cameras were filming us. After that the Ambassador read a speech in three languages which was very long. A cake was brought out, a toast was made, then the President of the C.A.R. came around and shook our hands. Wow, none of us had ever had the privilege of shaking hands with any country’s president before, so it was quite an honor. Sorry we don’t have any pictures of our night there. We didn’t want to look like tourists.
I prayed for the 4th of July outreach and look forward to hearing all about it.
Good-night - Jeana
Saturday, July 04, 2009
Hope for the C.A.R.
I was reading in the Psalms this morning and came upon some verses that really described what we observed at the Project Hope and Charity’s Last Day of School Celebration and had to write an addendum to yesterday’s blog.
Psalm 71:5-7 “For Thou are my hope.” What other hope do these orphaned children have than what God is providing through His people and His grace?
“O Lord God, Thou art my confidence from my youth.” The children who stood and spoke to the crowd were FULL of confidence. Here they are the put down in society, but yet they have the confidence to get up in front of dignitaries and boldly recite what they have prepared.)
“By Thee I have been sustained from my birth.” If you could see the living conditions of many of these kids, you would wonder how they could even survive.
“Thou art He who took me from my mother’s womb.” I can’t imagine giving birth here. No wonder the infant mortality rate is so high.
“My praise is continually of Thee.” To hear them sing praises to God is indescribable. They truly understand what it means to be “rescued”.
“I have become a marvel to many.” The Minister of National Education was in tears as he presented the awards to some of the children. These children should not even be surviving, yet alone thriving in their education.
“For thou art my strong refuge.” That explains why all this can be: because God is certainly their strong refuge.
Another few verses I read this morning I will leave you with. I am so excited to be a part of a church that “gets” all of this. What a blessing to be a part of God’s plan to save these children. It is so exciting to see these children have a chance at life all the while learning of God’s Word and God’s plan for them. I can’t wait to hear someday how God has used these children in the leadership of this country. They are the hope and the future of the C.A.R. and God’s Word is planted in their hearts!
Psalm 72:12-13: “For He will deliver the needy when he cries for help, the afflicted also, and him who has no helper. He will have compassion on the poor and needy, and the lives of the needy He will save.”
Have a great 4th of July! We will be praying for your outreach. Don’t forget to listen in around 9pm to the band that will be playing at the festivities there in Wooster. It is my son’s band. They won the Battle of the Bands of Wayne County and get to play tonight before the fireworks.
God Bless all of you,
Jeana
Psalm 71:5-7 “For Thou are my hope.” What other hope do these orphaned children have than what God is providing through His people and His grace?
“O Lord God, Thou art my confidence from my youth.” The children who stood and spoke to the crowd were FULL of confidence. Here they are the put down in society, but yet they have the confidence to get up in front of dignitaries and boldly recite what they have prepared.)
“By Thee I have been sustained from my birth.” If you could see the living conditions of many of these kids, you would wonder how they could even survive.
“Thou art He who took me from my mother’s womb.” I can’t imagine giving birth here. No wonder the infant mortality rate is so high.
“My praise is continually of Thee.” To hear them sing praises to God is indescribable. They truly understand what it means to be “rescued”.
“I have become a marvel to many.” The Minister of National Education was in tears as he presented the awards to some of the children. These children should not even be surviving, yet alone thriving in their education.
“For thou art my strong refuge.” That explains why all this can be: because God is certainly their strong refuge.
Another few verses I read this morning I will leave you with. I am so excited to be a part of a church that “gets” all of this. What a blessing to be a part of God’s plan to save these children. It is so exciting to see these children have a chance at life all the while learning of God’s Word and God’s plan for them. I can’t wait to hear someday how God has used these children in the leadership of this country. They are the hope and the future of the C.A.R. and God’s Word is planted in their hearts!
Psalm 72:12-13: “For He will deliver the needy when he cries for help, the afflicted also, and him who has no helper. He will have compassion on the poor and needy, and the lives of the needy He will save.”
Have a great 4th of July! We will be praying for your outreach. Don’t forget to listen in around 9pm to the band that will be playing at the festivities there in Wooster. It is my son’s band. They won the Battle of the Bands of Wayne County and get to play tonight before the fireworks.
God Bless all of you,
Jeana
Friday, July 03, 2009
Guests of Honor
I remember on my first trip here back in 1988 when I spent six weeks in the C.A.R. and the Chad, how many times I witnessed this. Sometimes it was very difficult because families would bring us the meals they had intended for themselves and offer it to us when we arrived in their villages. One of the most difficult things for me to do was to eat that meal as they watched with smiles on their faces knowing that for many of them, this was going to be their only meal for 3days. They truly are grateful and generous people.
Please keep the prayers up, we can feel them!
Doing and Learning Life in the C.A.R.
This blog entry is a team effort, and you will hear from each one of us.
(Jeana) The morning started out slow as we were waiting for our ride to return from Air France. John Hocking, Jim’s son, and another couple were checking their luggage in for their evening flight tonight. Once they returned, Heidi, Zac and I headed out for a morning tour of Bangui and a stop at the market. Barb headed back to the Orphan Care Center to help Nurse Rebecca.
(Jeana) After that, we stopped at the market to see all of the fresh fruits and veggies. A lady there came up to me and started talking. She had recognized me from church. The second part of the market was all of the fresh meat. It was, shall we say, interesting at the least to try to identify some of the animal parts for sale. It reminded me of biology class. I really don’t want to go into too much detail in case somebody reading this won’t be able to take it. If interested, ask later.
We went to the orphan group where our two sponsored children meet. Ruth, my girl, had a cough tonight. Their director, Jacqueline, asked for prayer for this group because there are many children from this group who are sick. This is group 004. We saw a little girl whose stomach was so bloated that she looked like she was pregnant, but she was very young. She is pictured with Barb above. Her arms and legs look like toothpicks. It turns out that this little girl has AIDS. She just lost her sister last month to AIDS as well. Nurse Rebecca is working with a doctor to get medicine for her. I believe Rebecca will see her tomorrow. She just sat the whole time looking very sick.
(Barb) It was so good to go back to the Mercy Care Center today. I got to see Firmin the little boy with the painful, swollen thumb. He had brought his x-ray back and the good news was no fracture, just sprain. Nurse Rebecca put some pain relieving cream on and wrapped his hand and thumb. Then I got to soak and wash his foot, how brethren is that! I then redressed his foot wound. When I was all done he presented me with flowers and a big smile. That’s the best pay check I ever received.
(Heidi) Again today, I learned more about the culture of the C.A.R. During our morning tour, we saw the jail, and the cemetery, among other things. It was interesting to see the differences between an American cemetery and one here. I also learned that the Africans are scared of the spirits of the dead, so they will not return to the cemetery after a person is buried. On this tour, I decided I will never complain about the potholes in America again! The roads here don’t even compare to American roads.
In the afternoon, I had a conversation with Williams about marriages in the C.A.R. and marriages in America. (Williams is the Assistant Director of the orphan care ministry here in Bangui. He also has a Master’s degree in English.) We talked about wedding ceremonies, and what a woman does to prepare for marriage. According to him, the women here have to know how to carry wood (because they cook over a fire), prepare and cook the Manioc root (gozo), and be strong. When I told him I was single, he said, “Oh, you are a bachelor.” At this point, I corrected him and explained the difference between a bachelor and a bachelorette. All in all, it was a fascinating conversation, with much laughter, about marriage.
Thanks for praying for us!
Thursday, July 02, 2009
Missionaries-in-Training
While we were on our tour, Barb went to the central market with Sue Peters. For Barb, this was definitely a great learning experience about the African culture. The Africans have a different mindset on how to display and sell meat. She said she’ll no longer complain about shopping at Wal-mart after seeing what she saw in the market. She’s actually looking forward to shopping there again. :)
For lunch, we met with Dr. Paul and Sue Yalipende. They have an amazing story about how God has protected through
many dangerous situations throughout their lives. It was also encouraging to hear how they help the Africans here in Bangui. Jeana, Barb, and Zac, had met them on previous trips, so they especially enjoyed catching up, and talking about life in America.
We also spent time at the United States Ambassador’s house with other missionaries here in Bangui. The Ambassador allows U.S. citizens to go to his house and swim, which is very beneficial because of the heat here. When we first arrived at the pool, the guards handed Jeana and Barb permission slips to let their children, who were under the age of 16, swim in the pool. Apparently they thought I was Barb’s daughter and not yet 16! I’ve now started calling her “mom” and she’s calling me “daughter.” We even joked about our team only having two families…the Harleys and the Teaches. :)
Wednesday night, we went to a prayer meeting for the missionaries here. It was a neat experience because the meeting was not exclusive to the Grace Brethren missionaries. We were able to meet Wycliffe Bible translators, too.
For lunch, we met with Dr. Paul and Sue Yalipende. They have an amazing story about how God has protected through
This is a great example of the body of Christ working together to give God glory and reach the people of Bangui. We even felt a little “star-struck” at this meeting, too. All year, we’ve been praying for the GBIM missionaries (from the booklet they publish), and now we met some of them! Instead of only praying for them, we can now pray with them for the work they do here. Looking at the picture, from left to right, the missionaries are: Kathleen (Wycliffe), Camille & Larry Robbins (Wycliffe), Janet Varner (GBIM), Tom & Sue Peters (ICDI), and Heidi Sisson (GBIM).
Zac ended the day, by leading team time. He read from 1 Samuel 20, and talked about the similarities between Jonathan and Jesus. Jonathan, as David’s friend, told him, “Whatever you want me to do, I’ll do for you.” Jesus, being an even better friend than any human can be, also tells us, “I’ll do anything for you. I’ll even die for you on a cross.” Hearing Zac talk about what he learned from the Bible was encouraging and a blessing.
We enjoyed learning about the culture, and all of the fellowship we had with the missionaries today. We understand life in Bangui a little bit better now.
Thanks for your prayers!
Heidi- on behalf of the team
We enjoyed learning about the culture, and all of the fellowship we had with the missionaries today. We understand life in Bangui a little bit better now.
Thanks for your prayers!
Heidi- on behalf of the team
[Blogger's note: Just in case you're wondering, not every missionary or even short-termers get to swim at the Ambassador's house. I for one have been to Bangui a couple of times and haven't had the honor yet. But again, I am not a citizen yet. I have to say, though, that the last time I was there I did go inside the Embassy with my Brazilian passport and was received very well. Life in Bangui is very hard and every missionary deserves a break. I am glad our team got to enjoy the clean and blue waters of the Ambassador's pool].
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